Why Weak Men Can't Handle a Strong Woman

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It's a known fact: Weak men simply can't handle a strong and vibrant, badass woman. This may make you lose hope in your ability to find someone, but it shouldn't. If anything, this great tool we possess should be used to sift through the low-life cheating assholes of the world and find someone who actually compliments and shares our great strength and stability.

Let me just give you a few reasons why I believe the weakest of men (or should I say little "boys") fall short in their relationship with fabulous women like us!

Number 1:  We Are Intimidating AF

Sister, women like us do not need or depend on a male counterpart for support. Financially and beyond, we pick ourselves up and have learned to thrive without counting on a man to hold us up. Back in the past age, men were viewed as "Alphas" of the pack. This has resulted in most men lacking the ability to see himself and a woman on equal terms in a relationship. They either demand to hold the reins or they just can't hang; #weakness at it's finest.

Number 2:  We Attract Attention

Being the diamonds that we are, we shine quite brightly because we are the shit. It's not our fault that people notice. Our intelligence and self-confidence draw the attention of everyone, and this causes competition with these weak boys due to their low self-esteem. No matter how hard they try, our natural ability to outshine them defeats their efforts, and they soon begin to resent us.

Number 3:  We Aren't Afraid To Voice Our Opinions

We know what we want, and we know what it takes to make it happen. Communication is what we thrive on. We are clear and precise about our needs and wants, and if we have to be a loud bitch, then so fucking be it. Get over it. Weak men can't handle this type of straight-to-the-point behavior because typically, they have to use manipulation and boyish games to obtain their desires.

Number 4:  We Reflect Their Shortcomings With Our Strengths

Our ruthless ability to not only stand up for ourselves in an argument but also assert our point of view in a crystal clear manner while maintaining our strength is not intended to be outdone or overlooked. This combination would seem to be something that is admired, however, it only highlights their weaknesses and shows even more of our never ending independence...which is something they completely lack. So in the end, weak men feel defeated by us.

Number 5:  We Fucking Love Ourselves

Being the weaklings that they are, they depend on their female counterpart to 'need' them. Something inside of them thrives on us feeling weak and helpless so that they can come to the rescue whenever it suits them. They have to feel like they can make us feel better about ourselves. Note: we feel amazing with or without your sorry cheating ass. With us strong women, we already know what we bring to the table, and we love every ounce our ourselves...even our darkest parts, thank you. We don't need to be rescued by some weak-ass man wannabe, and while we appreciate when you compliment us on our inner and outer beauty, we already fucking know this. And surprisingly, something about this trait we possess never sits well with weak men.

Number 6:  We Can Do Better Than Them

We can do so much better, and weak men with low self-esteem already know this. That is why in many relationships involving a weak asshole, the phrases "I don't deserve you" or "You could do better" continuously get brought up. Anytime a man says this in a relationship, please know that it is absolutely 100% the truth. They know where they lack. And deep down, the women that we are, we only bring the truth to light with our awesomeness.

Number 7:  We Don't Need Them, and They Know It

Perhaps the hardest and most terrifying idea for a weak man to grasp is the thought that at any given moment, we could leave their sorry ass and never look back. The idea that we are with them only because it enriches our lives at that particular moment in time scares the shit out of them, because they have to continue making it worth our while day in and day out. Otherwise, we will move on to bigger and better simply because we can.

Number 8:  We Find Beauty In Everything

Weak men typically wallow in sadness and fake pain and their behaviors typically demonstrate this to a tee. Jealousy, manipulation, cheating, lying...all normal behavior for weak men who only know endless negativity and crave constant attention. On the other hand, strong women are unwavering optimists who only see never ending opportunity ahead, and in a world like ours, well, everything is beautiful. The weak men in our lives do not find this palatable, because birds of a feather do indeed flock together, and we are far superior to them in every way.

Number 9:  We Have Infectious Badassery and They Can't Keep Up

Our strength is inspirational to those around us and it makes us a magnet to those who share our strength and intelligence. Unfortunately, this leaves weak men to always struggle to grab hold of the spotlight and eventually, they will be left in the darkness that they created. Our genuine inner strength and beauty will always guide us past those that hold us down, and weak men can't stand the fact that we are simply better than them in every aspect of life...even when it comes to career opportunities.

In closing, let me reiterate: We don't need your scandalous cheating ass...you need us. You need our stability, you need our brains; you need our nurturing ways, and in a way, you need our financial smarts. Sad thing is, you were never taught to work for what you want. Therefore, you will always end up with exactly what you deserve.